Nothing Human Is Alien II

NOTHING HUMAN IS ALIEN ll

by C. Jenny Walbridge

Inspired by Christopher Reeve’s speech at the Democratic Convention on August 26, 1996.

The early years:

I’d known bright joy at ovation

In a classroom situation.

I’d told others how to feel,

But could I see myself?

I had tasted their ablutions;

They were simple, clear solutions.

But my problems went beyond them,

And I had to get more help.

Later:

It was time for the Convention and

I heard Christopher Reeve;

He held me in detention, standing,

Heart upon my sleeve.

He said family values meant

In a country time is spent

On each other, sister, brother—

All cared for by one another.

The man had found some loopholes

In the American Dream:

He pointed out discrepancies:

Things are not what they seem

For those with shattered lives.

 And he said, We can overcome!

But ’til good heart arrives, it’s clear

The luckless are struck dumb.

Democracy’s in jeopardy—

The rich can lobby more!

Who pulls the strings?  Aren’t we ashamed

If we abuse the poor?

Tonight, in writing letters,

Some quite brilliant words I found.

They help cut through the old fetters

With which my eyes were bound.

“Nothing human is alien,”

Is the phrase I mention here.

I wrote it down so many times—

It seemed to stop my fear.

I’d suffered from psychosis then.

(It’s now under control:

The drugs I take can for me make

A more collected soul.)

When Reeve spoke and he mused so well

On our good land today,

“We must help those with mental problems

Too!” I thought he’d say.

I would not put it past him, though,

To quote, on second thought,

That if we can make a difference for

An ailing mind, we ought!

For all the knocks life hands to us,

It gives us talents, too,

And virtues such as empathy

It’s good not to eschew.

The struggle to be sound of self

Is not an easy one.  But

Of mind and body, health makes

Productive lives, and fun.

My own journey has taken me

Aways from whence I came:

By learning more about myself,

I’ve come to be the same,

But stronger, smarter, more aware

Of the fact that we are all

So very vulnerable to

A heart-ache or a fall

From the grace of full acceptance in

A culture that is mean,

A system that would hate its own

When they’re no longer lean

Or sprout a female chest or a

Cleft palate or are Black.

Discrimination hurts, my friend—

We’ve got to fight it back!

Nothing human is alien,

I’ve come to know it’s true.

For mentally ill I have been;

An artist too.  And you?

A family is what we are,

The rich parts and the poor,

And each of us inside our heads

Must build bridges for more

Understanding—it’s what we need,

Of ourselves, and of y’all!

My therapy’s been long enough

That I can make this call:

What grander art than that which

Rests between a set of ears?

But must psychology’s concern

Be solely that of fears?

Let us create a culture where

Art therapy’s the norm:

Where each one gets a chance to make

Some line, some movement, form,

And all feel inspiration 

To express their artist’s soul.

A healthy planet’s what we’d get 

If we’d assume this role!

I hold just that the world’s solutions 

Lie within our grasp,

Whether they be saving souls 

Or fighting plagues of asp.

Liberation of our souls is

Needed.  Hey!  I have seen

Within myself, recovery,

And hope.  Know what I dream?

A future where we utilize 

All of our greatest gifts, 

Where we’re engaged to teach, inspire;

In which my spirit lifts

The all of you, who come to know 

Yourselves as I’ll know me.

We’ll dance ahead, committed

To each other feeling free.

Health Determinants

Twenty Health Determinants for the National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health (NIH) to Use to Study Whole Person Health 

C. Jenny Walbridge, April/May 2022

  1. Possesses a sense of humor 
  2. Smiles; is friendly; is kind; compliments others
  3. Has needed charity or help, and has received it
  4. Engages in creative labor/fun (“Creativity is intelligence having fun,” as Albert Einstein said; “Let the work teach you how to do it,” an Estonian proverb)
  5. Maintains body and mouth health; has good posture, foot strength 
  6. Can improvise in surroundings (lands like a cat, as in Luke 12:11-12, Bible:, Luke in Limericks! by me: “And if you’re in a tricky spot/Then worry what you’ll say do not./For the Holy Ghost/Will tell you the most/Appropriate words.  Cool—a lot!”) 
  7. Eats and/or exchanges energy healthfully
  8. Is humble yet proud of self
  9. Has or had at least one love relationship in life (including to an animal)
  10. Moves body a lot and often
  11. Collaborates with other(s) to help plan Earthly celebration (“If not fun, why done?”)
  12. Has hand or foot print somewhere at least semi-permanently 
  13. Proximity to pollution 
  14. Can, daily, see sky and walk outside
  15. Sees someone with opposite-color eyes regularly: brown vs. blue/green
  16. Has a prize possession that can be carried and held (i. e. photograph/pendant/etc.)
  17. Doesn’t have too many choices to make each day (is not super rich)
  18. As a child, ran around outside, investigated nature, played
  19. Dwells near at least one hand-made, antique item
  20. Receives and gives caring touch

About my intellectual/creative background: I have an anthropology degree (B. S. Loyola University Chicago ’95) and have studied at the School of the Art Institute of Chicago; have lived in Illinois, near Chicago, most of my life.  However, for two years I lived in Oregon and for two months in Hawaii.  I am a writer, in verse and prose, these days, and a craftsperson/artist. Regarding #10, please ask me for information on movement–and anything else; I might have it to share!  I keep files and books on health and culture, including food and women’s issues & etc. 

Also, I have had profound experience with mental healing. My website (alternatefuturesinstitute.com) features 66 paintings of images from my talk therapy of psychological hurt and healing. 

Thank you for your work!!  Now, let’s play!

Lady Don’t Lack

This rap, by J., follows Sir-Mix-A-Lot’s 1992 “Baby Got Back.”

We got big butts

And we will not lie

You other peoples

Might ask why

It’s how we’re made we just size up

We gonna fill your cup!

We so lovely you tearin’

You look and you can’t stop leerin’

That girl in the mirror smilin’

That fat on her backside pilin’!

In the butt we’re radical

We be international!

We like our rear 

And we think we’re fine

Whoever made us 

Was sure tryin’!

Drivin’ to be livin’

Women got much fat

Drivin’ to be livin’

And we sure don’t lack!

We stick out in wide ways

I say we gonna get some lays

Cellulite is here to find?

Jiggling, sister, we don’t mind–

We beautiful!

We got big butts 

And we think we bad

They givin’ by our mom and dad

Nobody who be less than cool

Will learn it all at this good school!

We love our butts 

And it’s so okay

Bitching about it’s yesterday

My body it ain’t yours for free

Unless you gonna respect me!

Lady don’t lack

Lady don’t lack

Decent folks find our form pleasin’

Nature made us for a reason!

Drivin’ to the livin’ 

And we got much fat

Drivin’ to the livin’

And we fine with that

What is that in your head?  It’s corny!

That thought you got makes you so scorny!

Critic baby you may be

Well free your mind, y’all, say me

Dial 1-800-FIX-A-LOT

And ditch those sexist thoughts!

Lady don’t lack!